Since the business started, we only meet him around 2 hours a day. That is only when I go to the shop. He slept there for a few nights already. The children missed him even more coz sometime, I don’t bring them along when I go there.

Not that I do not want to go home earlier but when I’m home, I will be taking care of my 3 children all by myself. At my mom’s, I have my dad, my mom and my sister to keep an eye on them.

Anyhow, for few nights already I’m able to get all 3 to sleep by 10.30pm provided I bring them home by 8.30pm. They need to mess up the room for at least 2 hours before sleeping. You noticed or not that I say “room” not “house” coz I’ll try to keep them inside the room most of the time. If they mess up the house, I got bigger area to clean up! Just imagine, I’m living in a house with 7 bedrooms, 2 kitchens, 2 bathrooms, 2 toliets, a big dining hall and a living room. Btw, I’m not living in a bungalow. It is a kampung house.

Eventhough my mom had all 4 of us. She had it easy with the age gap and with the help from my grandma who was always around. When I’m 4, she got my bro then my sis, a year after that. When my sis is 3, she conceived the 4th one. And she got me to help out too. Mine…3+, 22 mths old and a 4 mths plus a busy hubby!

I really praise God that I have my mom and dad to help me out. Even weekends I’ll be at my mom’s. She’s complaining that she does not have rest day but what can I do. I can’t handle all 3 all by myself the whole day. I’ll go crazy!!!

When I scream at them, I’ll get sore-throat. If I surpress my anger, I’ll get gastric. A banker told me to breath in and out a few times. It helps. :D

Now, if you want to mess up the room, mess up lar. You want to fight, fight lar. You want to cry, cry lar. They will be tired by 10pm then easily fall asleep by 10.30pm.

Praying hard that God will bless the business and we will have enough to employ an assistant. Pray with me please. :D


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